Where oh where are you?

I'm currently 11-12DPO, and am waiting very impatiently for AF to show up...

I had hope through this morning, but I took a HPT and it was BFN...and my temps seem to be dropping also...

Realistically, I'm pretty sure that we missed the timing on it this month (I think I Oed on December 25, and we couldn't BD until December 26)...so it goes, I learned a lot...

But, this coming month would be an October baby - and since both myself and my husband are October babies, this would be an amazing present to us:)

Ok, so I'll admit, I'm completely OCD, I want to have complete control at all times, and not having it is very stressful for me...so, I'm trying to have as close to a foolproof plan as I can...so, I know that at least if the eggie is a good eggie, it will meet the sperm...

So...my plan:
**WARNING: WAY TMI**
1. BD every other day starting on CD14 (I know I wont O earlier than that)
2. Keep close track of CM...
3. When CM starts increasing, start using OPKs 2x/day (I just ordered 50 of them)
4. Also, when CM starts increasing, start taking regular Robitussin once a day...
5. If temp drops, be sure to BD that day no matter what...same for a + OPK: BD that day no matter what...
6. On + OPK days: after BD, put in an Instead cup after - wait 20 minutes...if no *O* during BD, then manually *O* to make sure that spermies get up there...
(keep Instead cup in for at least 4 hours)

If it doesn't work, and if AF is as late as it was this time (I'm already on CD43!!)...then I will be going to a fertility specialist in February...I've been recording when I've gotten AF for the last year, and I think that information will allow for me to be seen by him/her...hopefully so I can get on some drugs to get the ball moving, and to check everything out to make sure everything is ok...